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Dear Anon,

1. It is my advise that if your family face so much problems and if they are not staying together but separate:

2. It is acceptable to exhume the grave but:

2.1 This has to be done by experienced grave diggers.

I have a very short writeup at
https://www.geomancy.net/fs/exhume.htm

2.2. Usually, once exhumed, it is best to cremate the bones.

2.3. Cremation is considered neutral and will accordingly, will not affect the `decendants'. A place can be found at a crematorium to house the ashes of the dead.

Alternatively, the ashes can be dispersed into the sea. This is done by many cultures and symbollically, your grandmother can be close to your grandfather as the sea connects all lands.

Perhaps, if the decendants are facing lots of difficulties, para 2.3 can be considered and it is not necessary to re-bury your grandmother with your grandfather.

--- This is not Feng Shui ---
3. There are cases where some corpses did not disintegrate and the whole body was still intact. Usually, this is bad for the decendants. I understand that it is worse still are the display glass has been splintered onto the face of the deceased. After 30 years, the body should have turned to ashes.

Warmest Regards,
Cecil

On 2/20/00 9:56:00 PM, Anonymous wrote:
>Dear Cecil
>
>My grandmother has passed away
>for almost 30 over years and
>lately I learnt that it is
>very important for ancestors
>to be happily buried. My
>grandmother has a loving
>relationship with my
>grandfather, however they did
>not bury together - one is in
>Bintan (place of her death)
>and the another is in Anambas
>islands (their true home). No
>wonder many of us, the
>descendents, suffered from
>many setbacks in life.
>Cecil, what I am trying to
>find out is, is it too late to
>move her grave after almost 30
>years later, to her real home
>so to as "unite" with my
>grandfather?
>
>Appreciate if you could help,
>Thanks!