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Hello Cecil,
My boyfried is a very weak fire (10%) and I'm a very strong water (70%). Every time we're together, his sinus/congestion problem becomes very bad. I feel like I'm drowning him or putting his weak fire out. I know the wood element is the binding element, but how do we apply this wood element to better our situation? His house is made of natural cedar wood and so all the external walls are wood walls, but this wood house doesn't seem to help us. Do we need to get a wood bedframe, all wood furniture etc..?

By the way his house flying star shows his bedroom has two stars 2. I intend to hang a 6 coin with red string to counter the stars 2. However, I still don't think the star 2 is the main problem because his sinus didn't bother him much until he met me. At the beginning, we thought he was alergic to my dogs, but now that I know I'm a strong water and he is a weak fire, I think I'm the cause of his sinus problem. Please suggest some ideas on how we can apply the wood binding element.
Thank you again for your help.
Hoa